4.21.2008

Breakup Blues

Ever wonder if you're going to get a fairytale ending? Ever hope your Prince Charming will come and save you?
The truth is, he will. Then he'll leave. Depending on how Charming he is; he will do it nicely or hurtfully. The thing with a breakup is it hurts at first. Then it gets better. But it takes time. The getting over it takes longer or shorter, depending on how involved you were emotionally.
Steps to getting over it:

1) Tell someone, don't bottle up emotions.
2) Don't beg for him back. (or her if your a guy).
3) Don't say anything mean about your ex, it will bite you in the bottom.
4) Try not to cry. But if you do cry, watch a romantic movie, get Ben and Jerrys ice cream, and mope.
5) Flirt, your back on the market. Its okay.
6) Make peace with your ex. It helps somewhat.
7) Stay clear of guys [girls] for a \t least a week to be sure your not still emotionally involved with him or her.
8) If you pass step seven, find out your possiblities.
9) Spend sometime with your Bestie. She [he] will always ,make it better.
10) Don't blame yourself. Don't think of all the things you could have done to prevent it. It would have happened anyway.

Make peace. I just got dumped. IT HURTS! but I'm healing. I'm going to take my own advice and curl up with a bowl of ice cream. =) enjoy.

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